20-30歲，你拿這10年忙什麼

二十幾歲的生命，活力四射，生機勃勃；二十幾歲的人生，充滿機遇，富有挑戰，二十幾歲，面臨囑全巴著人生諸多角色的變化譽翻轎，面臨著許多選擇，二十幾歲無疑會決定人的一生，本恥束跨精書旨在指導二十幾歲的年輕人活出自己，活出心情，處理好二十幾歲時人生應該重點面對的問題。讓你在品生活的艱辛、困苦、壓力的同時，擁有良好的處世心態，使你的人生在追求完整和完美的過程中熠熠發光。

第1 章　時間都去哪兒了，別讓自己再迷糊了 ·································· 1

認清現實的現狀，重視生存的能力 ··········································· 2

不因年輕而高傲，現實要求腳踏實地 ········································ 4

準確定位，用自己的特長求發展 ·············································· 7

安於現狀，生活只會是一潭死水 ·············································10

走過的是路，沒走過的是人生 ················································13

無踏櫃酷悔青春，勇於嘗試新的體驗 ················································15

別讓將來的你看不起現在的自己 ·············································17

人生選擇環境，環境推進人生 ················································20

思考致富而不是努力工作致富 ················································22

多點自省，洗去浮躁與衝動 ···················································24

時間是一條河，別在岸邊看它流逝 ··········································26

第2 章　誰的青春不迷茫，金子也需把自己磨光 ······························29

你或許還不是金子，但要成為發光的種子 ·································30

面對浮華的塵世，要有自己的主見 ··········································32

不要怕找不到出路，要有明確的思循轎槓尋路 ·······································34

處在事腳全恥業的起點，要尋找命運的拐點 ·······································36

要有職業定位，但汗提別讓工作把你定型 ·······································38

你會有求於人，但要相信命由己造 ··········································40

沒有人比你更重視你自己 ······················································42

即使屢遭打擊，自己也先要鼓勵自己 ·······································44

第3 章　此時你若不去勇敢，未來誰能替你扛 ·································47

別擔心自己會失敗，邁步路就會在腳下延伸 ······························48

別擔心自己無能，最優秀的人就是你自己 ·································50

別擔心自己經驗少，要學會經營你的優勢 ·································52

別擔心自己沒機遇，創造財富需要慧眼 ····································54

別擔心自己沒人幫，貴人要靠自己尋找 ····································56

別擔心自己沒創意，勇於嘗試就有機會 ····································58

別擔心自己沒幫手，共贏才會有發展 ·······································60

別擔心自己不專業，有想法就有出頭的希望 ······························62

第4 章　即使是不成熟的嘗試，也勝於胎死腹中的空想 ·····················65

本來無望的事，大膽嘗試就能有所突破 ····································66

消極悲觀的話語，會粉碎你內心的希望 ····································68

只要勇於開始，永遠都不晚 ···················································70

上帝的延遲，並不是上帝的拒絕 ·············································72

走自己的路，讓別人說去吧 ···················································74

選擇你所喜歡的，喜歡你所選擇的 ··········································76

人生所有的時間裡，“現在”是最棒的 ····································79

從小步開始，增加“走出大步”的可能 ····································81

要為成功找方法，莫為失敗找理由 ··········································83

第5 章　不是忙碌就有收穫，重要的是找到合適的方向 ·····················87

忙而不乏味：讓自己的職業與興趣結合 ····································88

忙也要會思考：認清自己想要的是什麼 ····································90

忙也要有道理：忙要忙在點子上 ·············································92

忙也需有章法：有理可依、有據可查 ·······································94

忙而有序：把重要的事放在第一位 ··········································96

忙而有效：做事果斷決策、善始善終 ·······································98

忙而不盲目：做自己熟練而擅長的事情 ·································· 100

忙而有樂：工作與生活都要當贏家 ········································ 102

第6 章　理清思路找到出路，別甘心成為大多數 ···························· 105

按圖索驥畫不出精彩人生 ···················································· 106

讓思想無限接近零缺陷 ······················································· 108

別總跟“志趣相投”的朋友一起 ··········································· 110

時常擰一擰思想的發條 ······················································· 113

依靠他人，永遠不能成就傑出的自己 ····································· 115

自我特色是贏得競爭的砝碼 ················································· 116

不要淹沒在潮流中，要讓自己與眾不同 ·································· 119

拐個彎會省下更多的時間和力氣 ··········································· 121

最合適你的，才是真正最好的 ·············································· 123

敢於走在人先，才能贏在人前 ·············································· 125

走自己的路，才能走別人沒走過的路 ····································· 127

第7 章　樹立你的目標，讓自己擁有拼搏方向 ······························· 129

越是卓越的人生越是志向的產物 ··········································· 130

淡漠是半個死亡，願望是半個生命 ········································ 131

目標清晰明確，盯著目標前行 ·············································· 133

從小目標開始，實現大目標的突破 ········································ 136

先為目標付出，目標只成就不可或缺的人 ······························· 138

用目標給人生帶來無窮的力量 ·············································· 141

夢想從身邊觸手可及的地方尋找 ··········································· 143

第8 章　投資一種時間，年輕就是最大的資本 ······························· 147

提升素質，讓你的辛苦換來更大的回報 ·································· 148

把時間用在學習上，是最有價值的投資 ·································· 151

尊重時間就是尊重自己的前程 ·············································· 153

盛年不重來，一日難再晨 ···················································· 156

時不我待，擺脫拖延的惡習 ················································· 159

時間像水珠，一顆顆分散開來就會蒸發 ·································· 163

為了錯誤去後悔是錯上加錯 ················································· 165

柳比歇夫的時間統計方法 ···················································· 167

第9 章　下定一個決心，讓自己實現諾言 ····································· 171

命運在自己的手裡，而不在別人的嘴裡 ·································· 172

寧可敗給別人，也不能輸給自己 ··········································· 174

成功者之所以成功，得益於志存高遠 ····································· 176

人之所以能，是因為相信能 ················································· 178

人生的突破，躲在異想天開之後的行動上 ······························· 181

人生的差別，在於能否再堅持一下 ········································ 184

沒試過，別以理論解釋人生 ················································· 187

命運擲來一把刀，你就要抓住刀柄 ········································ 190

專注做好一件事，不節外生枝 ·············································· 193

從失敗中學到聰明，並善加利用 ··········································· 196

第10 章　看準一個機會，命運靠自己轉彎 ···································· 199

像下跳棋一樣想辦法“一步登天” ········································ 200

善於識別時機，學會抓住時機 ·············································· 202

抱怨缺少條件，不然何創造條件 ··········································· 205

別空等萬事俱備的時候 ······················································· 208

機遇之門只為有準備的人敞開 ·············································· 211

“秀”出自己，贏得機遇的傾心 ··········································· 214

機會與誘惑總會如影隨形 ···················································· 216

機遇總是光顧那些善於決斷的人 ··········································· 218

醒目地亮出自己而非坐等伯樂發現你 ····································· 220

愚者才等待機會，而智者則造就機會 ····································· 222

第11 章　拓展一層關係，讓自己相交天下 ···································· 225

多結交比自己優秀的人物 ···················································· 226

“貴人”是送你上青雲的好風 ·············································· 228

有意識地建立你的朋友網路 ················································· 231

讓第一印象搶灘登入 ·························································· 234

培養與陌生人“一見如故”的本領 ········································ 237

相逢一笑，盡把恩仇了 ······················································· 240

學會保全他人的面子 ·························································· 243

第12 章　堅定一種信念，用最初的心做持久的事 ··························· 247

最大的麥穗，就是身邊的那一個 ··········································· 248

人生中最大的敵人是自己 ···················································· 250

為難你的人，其實是你的貴人 ·············································· 252

一個勁敵，在心胸小的人眼裡才是羈絆 ·································· 254

競爭並不意味著要打敗別人 ················································· 256

小鴨從不介意飛不高，因為游泳它很在行 ······························· 258

家有萬貫之財，不如一技在手 ·············································· 261

不盲目執著，放棄需要理智 ················································· 263

習慣若不是最好的僕人，便是最差的主人 ······························· 265

第13 章　白手起家正當時，燦爛人生不是夢 ································· 267

白手起家正當時，燦爛人生不是夢 ········································ 268

處處有黃金，關鍵在於用心 ················································· 270

雄心和決心是億萬富翁的致富秘訣 ········································ 272

貧窮並不可恥，可恥的是安於貧窮 ········································ 275

在小錢上精明才能培養大富翁的素質 ····································· 278

天上掉餡餅，你必須“站對地方”接 ····································· 280

沒有創新的靈感時，不妨先從模仿開始 ·································· 282

利用大家的智慧，賺取無窮的財富 ········································ 285

旁觀者的姓名永遠爬不到比賽者的計分板上 ···························· 287

互助一年石成玉，合作二年土變金 ········································ 290

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