The Man You Had in Mind

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The story typically goes: you fall head over heels in love, have lots of sex, make a commitment, move in together, start sharing your dreams and goals, buy a house, maybe raise a child or two, care for each other when times are tough and eventually grow old together. This is the American dream and what most of us strive for - to share our lives with someone special. It is one of the most natural things in the world. Why is it that some people have such a problem with the scenario when it involves two men? We live in a time when gay relationships are a divisive issue. Consequently, the notion that a gay couple could establish a stable and loving relationship worthy of equal civil recognition is sometimes threatening, sparking intense emotional debate. But, falling in love is a universal human experience, regardless of one's sexual orientation. Gay men form stable relationships for the same reasons that heterosexual couples do, but the ties that bind these couples are in some ways different. The Man You Had in Mind explores the intimate lives of five Oregon gay male couples; the forces that bring them together, the journeys they face, and the culture in which they survive and thrive.

故事通常是這樣的：你墜入愛河，做愛，做出承諾，搬到一起，開始分享你的夢想和目標，買房子，也許撫養一兩個孩子，在困難的時候互相照顧，最終一起變老。這就是美國夢，也是我們大多數人的奮鬥目標——與特別的人分享我們的生活。它是世界上最自然的東西之一。為什麼有些人在涉及兩個人的情況下會有這樣的問題？我們生活在一個同性戀關係成為分裂問題的時代。因此，同性戀夫婦可以建立一種值得平等民事承認的穩定而充滿愛的關係的觀念有時是具有威脅性的，引發了激烈的情感辯論。但是，無論一個人的性取向如何，墜入愛河都是人類普遍的經歷。男同性戀者與異性戀伴侶建立穩定關係的原因相同，但維繫這些伴侶的紐帶在某些方面有所不同。你心目中的男人探索了五對俄勒岡州男同性戀伴侶的親密生活；將他們聚集在一起的力量，他們所面臨的旅程，以及他們賴以生存和繁榮的文化。

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