基本介紹
- 中文名：驗紅
- 外文名：Check the red
- 含義：於成婚之夕檢驗是否處女
- 流行地區：全國許多地區
- 屬性：舊時漢族婚俗
其初行房事時所用之巾，稱為“喜帕”。如發現新娘非處女，不舉鼓樂，有於次日即交媒人遣返母家者。明人託名漢代所著《雜事秘辛》，記載東漢桓帝時世族女子梁實為明人觀念的反映，可與驗紅之俗相映證。
清俞樾《右台仙館筆記》：“南隸永平府某縣，其地閨範極嚴。凡女子初嫁，母家必使偵探。成婚之次日，夫家鼓樂喧闐，賀客雜沓，則大喜。
若是日闃然，則女家為之喪氣，女之留否，惟夫家為政，不敢與爭矣。積習相傳如此，雖其意甚善，然亦敝俗也。有王姓，嫁女於李氏。
卻扇之夕，李以新婦貌陋嫌之，次日託言非處子，不舉樂，仍呼媒妁送歸母家。女幼失母，隨其嫂以居，嫂知小姑無他，乃問昨夜洞房事，則固未合歡也。
嫂曰：‘然則安知其不貞歟？’力言於翁，使翁訟於官。官命驗之，果守禮謹嚴之處子也！乃判李姓仍以鼓樂迎歸。”林紓《畏廬瑣記》：“粵人則重驗紅，試之果處子，則明日必廣取小豚，炙而遍餉親知，否則闃然，人爭恥之。”
英文講法：The first sexual intercourse with the towel, known as "pa". If the bride non virgin, not for music, in the next day to return 'home'. The name of the Ming Dynasty "errands" records of Eastern Han Dynasty, Emperor Huan clan women's beam to reflect the concept of Ming Dynasty, with the red card check custom form. Qing Yu Yue "right" Taiwan Koon notes: "south Li Yongping Prefecture County, think its very strict. Those who first married woman, water will make the detective. Married the next day, the family music sprang up, which is the big part. If the day quietly, is home to stay down, women not only home for the government, did not dare to struggle with. The old legend, is the very good, but also our common will. Surnamed Wang, married women in the LIS. But fan Xi, Li to the bride looks ugly too, the said non virgin, not for music, still call 'to'. Young women lost mother, sister to live with her sister, as he asked last night but no hole, sex, solid not Acacia also. Elder brother's wife said: 'but as his faithless V3?' Insisted to Weng, Weng litigation to an officer. Official life, fruit Shouli of careful inspection of virgin! Is sentenced Lee to drum facing to return. " Lin Shu: "day" "Wei Lu Yue people are re examined red fruit, test first, then tomorrow will be widely from small dolphin, prepared through rates or acquaintance, quiet, for shame."
白話文講法
他開始行房事時所用的毛巾，稱為“喜帕”。如發現新娘不是處女，不做音樂，有在第二天就交媒人派回母親家的人。
第二個藉口漠代所著的《雜事秘辛》，記載東漢桓帝時代族女子梁是明人觀念的反映，可以與驗證紅的風俗相互映證。
清腦樾《右台仙館筆記》：“南隸屬永平府某縣，這個地方在范極嚴。凡女子出嫁，母親家必須使偵探。結婚的第二天，那家鼓樂喧聞，賓客滿座，那么很高興。如果這一天寂靜，那女子的家人為之沮喪，女的留下嗎？，只有那家為政，不敢和他爭了。
積習相傳這樣，雖然他的意圖很好，但也壞風俗的。有個姓王，嫁女兒到李氏。但扇的晚上，李把新娘相貌醜陋討厭他，第二天託言不是處女，不奏樂，仍叫媒人送回到母親家。
女兒從小失去母親，隨著他的嫂子用過，嫂嫂知道小姑沒有別的，於是問他昨天晚上洞房事，那本來不合歡的。
嫂子說：‘那么怎么知道他不忠貞嗎？’力對翁，讓父親告到官府。官員命令驗證的，果然守禮謹嚴的處女啊！於是判李姓仍用鼓樂迎回。”林解除《害怕廬瑣記》：“粵人那么重驗證紅，測試的是處女，那么明天一定廣取小豬，烘烤而遍饋贈親友，否則寂靜，人爭可恥的。”
