《卡內基第一講:人際關係學》是2013年輕鬆讀文化事業有限公司出版的圖書,作者是大師輕鬆讀。
基本介紹
- 書名:卡內基第一講:人際關係學
- 作者:大師輕鬆讀
- 類別:性格與情緒
- 出版社:輕鬆讀文化事業有限公司
- 出版時間:2013年11月1日
- 著作權方:杭州藍獅子文化創意有限公司
內容簡介,目錄,
內容簡介
不論我們的職業、目標、野心是什麼,人際關係都是我們所面對的最大挑戰。運用本書所揭示的原則,你就可以增強信心、影響力和效能。你會學到如何讓別探凶榜白人不會只顧他們自己的目標,而與你目標一致。只要你肯花時間努乎再力學習如何和周遭的人互動,就能增進船廈元能力,達成所有目標。“自己主動喜歡別人,可以讓你在短短兩個月的時間內交到許多朋友;但你若想讓別人先喜歡上你才做朋友,那你得花上兩年以上的功夫。”--卡內基 “你曾看過不高興的馬兒嗎?你有見過憂鬱的鳥兒嗎?因為馬兒跟鳥兒從來不曾想去改變別人對他們的印象,所以快樂。”--卡內基 “一個人的人格特質要比外在名聲重要多了。因為人格特質所呈現的是真正的你,但外在的名聲卻只是別人對你的皮毛之見罷了。”--卡內基 “如果想贏得友誼,最重要的事就是記住對方的名字。若是你能記住我的名龍匪婆字,代表著你對我的基本尊重,也意味著你對我留有印象,這項舉動會讓我覺得我備受尊重。”--卡內基
目錄
原著作者
譯者簡介
5分鐘摘要
第1部分 處理人際關係的基本技巧
1.1 想要采蜂蜜,就不要踩蜂窩
1.2 處理人際關係的重大秘訣
1.3 擁有他人的支持才能邁向成功
第2部分 6個讓別人喜歡你的訣竅
2.1 讓你受歡迎的做法
2.2 建立良好第一印象的簡單方法
2.3 若是做不到這點,就會後患無窮
2.4 如何當個好的談話對象
2.5 如何引起他人的興趣
2.6 如何讓人立即喜歡你
第3部分 如何讓旁人接受你的想法
3.1 你絕不可能在爭辯中獲勝
3.2 避免樹敵的凶樂她抹方法
3.3 你若犯錯,就坦白承認
3.4 一滴蜜糖
3.5 蘇格拉底的智慧
3.6 處理抱怨的安全閥門
3.7 如何獲得支持合作
3.8 為你創造奇蹟的公式
3.9 所有人的渴望
3.10 大家都喜歡的要求
3.11 電影這樣做店拳罪、白朽跨電視這樣做,你為什麼不如法炮製?
3.12 無計可施的最後一招
第4部分 優秀領導的原則
4.1 如果你一定要指出別人的錯誤,就該以如下的方式開始
4.2 如何批評,而不招致怨懟
4.3 先談你自己的錯誤
4.4 沒有人喜歡聽命於人
4.5 顧全其他人的面子
4.6 如何激勵他人追求成功
4.7 必也正名乎
4.8 讓錯誤看起來很容易改正
4.9 讓人心甘情願地做你想要他們做的事
Main Idea
Part 1 Fundamental Techniques In Handling People
1.1 If You Want To Gather Honey, Don't Kick Over The Beehive
1.2 The Big Secret Of Dealing With People
1.3 He Who Can Do This Has The Whole World With Him. He Who Cannot Walks A Lonely Way
Part 2 Six Ways To Make People Like You
2.1 Do This And You'll Be Welcome Anywhere
2.2 A Simple Way To Make A Good First Impression
2.3 If You Don't Do This You Are Headed For Trouble
2.4 An Easy Way To Become A Good Conversationalist
2.5 How To Interest People
2.6 How To Make People Like You Instantly
Part 3 How To Win People To Your Way Of Thinking
3.1 You Can't Win An Argument
3.2 Sure Way Of Making Enemies — And How To Avoid It
3.3 If You're Wrong — Admit It
3.4 A Drop Of Honey
3.5 The Secret Of Socrates
3.6 The Safety Valve In Handling Complaints
3.7 How To Get Cooperation
3.8 A Formula That Will Work Wonders For You
3.9 What Everybody Wants
3.10 An Appeal That Everybody Likes
3.11 The Movies Do It. TV Does it. Why Don't You Do It?
3.12 When Nothing else Works, Try This
Part 4 The Principles Of Good Leadership
4.1 If You Must Find Fault, This Is The Way To Begin
4.2 How To Criticize — And Not Be Hated For It
4.3 Talk About Your Own Mistakes First
4.4 No One Likes To Take Orders
4.5 Let The Other Person Save Face
4.6 How To Spur people On To Success
4.7 Give A Dog A Good Name
4.8 Make The Fault Seem Easy To Correct
4.9 Making People glad To Do What You Want
Part 2 Six Ways To Make People Like You
2.1 Do This And You'll Be Welcome Anywhere
2.2 A Simple Way To Make A Good First Impression
2.3 If You Don't Do This You Are Headed For Trouble
2.4 An Easy Way To Become A Good Conversationalist
2.5 How To Interest People
2.6 How To Make People Like You Instantly
Part 3 How To Win People To Your Way Of Thinking
3.1 You Can't Win An Argument
3.2 Sure Way Of Making Enemies — And How To Avoid It
3.3 If You're Wrong — Admit It
3.4 A Drop Of Honey
3.5 The Secret Of Socrates
3.6 The Safety Valve In Handling Complaints
3.7 How To Get Cooperation
3.8 A Formula That Will Work Wonders For You
3.9 What Everybody Wants
3.10 An Appeal That Everybody Likes
3.11 The Movies Do It. TV Does it. Why Don't You Do It?
3.12 When Nothing else Works, Try This
Part 4 The Principles Of Good Leadership
4.1 If You Must Find Fault, This Is The Way To Begin
4.2 How To Criticize — And Not Be Hated For It
4.3 Talk About Your Own Mistakes First
4.4 No One Likes To Take Orders
4.5 Let The Other Person Save Face
4.6 How To Spur people On To Success
4.7 Give A Dog A Good Name
4.8 Make The Fault Seem Easy To Correct
4.9 Making People glad To Do What You Want